Veil & Vows: an Alternative Wedding Wonderland
If you’ve ever walked through a traditional wedding expo and thought, “This doesn’t really feel like me…” then Veil & Vows is exactly the kind of place you’ve been searching for.
This year, Fior Design Studio helped bring the whimsical Alice in Wonderland theme to life through hand-painted watercolor stationery & signage.
If you’ve ever walked through a traditional wedding expo and thought, “This doesn’t really feel like me…” then Veil & Vows is exactly the kind of place you’ve been searching for.
This year, Fior Design Studio helped bring the whimsical Alice in Wonderland theme to life through custom hand-painted watercolor stationery & signage.
Vendor Team: Joelle Dardis Photography , Century Decor Studio, Victorian Belle Weddings & Events, Just Elizabeth by Design, Little Banana Bakery, Under Your Spelle, Maraschino Makeup, NW Rose Events, Timeless Events
A Wedding Show for the Wonderfully Unconventional
Hosted at the breathtaking Victorian Belle Mansion, Veil & Vows is a wedding show designed for couples who want something a little darker, dreamier, nerdier, more whimsical or artistic - or simply more them.
Storybook Details Brought to Life
This season’s event transformed the historic Victorian Belle Mansion into a living, breathing Alice in Wonderland fantasy. Each vendor was invited to interpret the theme in their own unique way. I had the honor of creating custom stationery and signage for the “Mad Hatter’s Tea Party” experience in the Gazebo. From whimsical hand-painted directional signs to custom-shaped menus, every detail was designed to make guests feel as though they had truly fallen down the rabbit hole.
An Enchanting Historic Venue
And there could not be a more perfect setting than the Victorian Belle Mansion itself. Built in 1885 as a gift from a husband to his wife, the mansion was literally created as an extravagant gesture of love. Today, the historic estate serves as one of Portland’s most enchanting wedding venues, complete with lush gardens, stained glass windows, and a sweeping view of the city.
What Even is an Alternative Wedding? (There Are No Rules Here!)
Alternative weddings are becoming increasingly popular because couples are realizing something important:
Your wedding does not have to look like everyone else’s.
An “alternative wedding” can mean anything from gothic to geeky, fantasy or avant-garde. Maybe you want references to your favorite books and movies woven throughout the decor. Maybe you want to skip the traditional white dress entirely and walk down the aisle in your favorite color instead.
At my own wedding, I included subtle nods to Lord of the Rings, Twilight, Harry Potter, and Game of Thrones. Those personal touches made the day feel uniquely ours, and that’s exactly what alternative weddings are all about!
Cue the Whimsy!
From the moment you arrived at Veil & Vows, it was clear that this was not a typical wedding show. Guests entered through a portal-like archway made of twisting branches, with Cheshire Cat himself perched above. From there, the property opened into a surreal dreamscape filled with oversized mushrooms, floral installations, fountains with cherub statues, luxurious velvet draping, and beautifully layered table settings.
Live painters created artwork in real time while guests wandered the mansion grounds. Tea party tables overflowed with clocks, candlesticks, and topsy turvy cakes. Around any corner, you might stumble upon the Queen of Hearts herself.
What made Veil & Vows feel so different from a traditional wedding expo was how immersive everything felt. Rather than rows of vendor booths in a convention center, it felt like walking through a fully realized wedding experience.
Custom Art for a Perfectly Mad Affair
For Veil & Vows, I designed a collection of custom stationery & signage pieces inspired by the whimsical chaos of the Mad Hatter’s Tea Party.
Throughout the property, guests encountered colorful directional signs shaped like arrows, lettered in playful calligraphy. Signs pointing out locations like the Queen’s Garden Ceremony & Pavilion directed guests in a way that was fun and functional.
At the gazebo entrance, where my booth was located, I created a large welcome sign inviting guests into the tea party. The piece featured a painted top hat adorned with hand-lettered calligraphy, displayed in an antique gold frame atop an easel.
For the table setting, I designed watercolor placecards and dessert menus with a colorful, tea-stained watercolor theme. Each placecard featured names of Alice in Wonderland characters, and were tied with an ornate brass key for an extra storybook detail.
The dessert menus were one of my favorite pieces: custom-cut into the shape of a top hat and displayed on antique brass stands for added height and drama.
These are the kinds of details I absolutely love creating: pieces that feel artistic, immersive, and entirely unique to the event.
Your Wedding Should Look Like You!
At Fior Design Studio, I specialize in custom wedding stationery and signage for couples who want something beyond the expected.
I love working with couples who are drawn to the unusual, the artistic, and the deeply personal. I believe that your wedding stationery should feel like an extension of your love story.
And honestly? Your stationery sets the tone for the entire experience.
Your save the dates are the very first interaction guests have with your wedding. They immediately tell your guests whether they’re stepping into a gothic manor, an enchanted forest, or a whimsical tea party.
Why not make that first impression unforgettable?
For the Couples Who Never Saw Themselves in “Traditional” Weddings
If you’ve ever felt like the wedding world wasn’t built for you- this space was.
Your wedding doesn’t have to follow formulas, it can be as out-there as you want it to be. The most meaningful weddings are the ones that genuinely reflect the couple at the center of them.
Veil & Vows left me overflowing with inspiration and wonder. It reminded me that weddings can have personalities all of their own. That is the kind of wedding world I want to help create.
If you’re dreaming of one-of-a-kind wedding stationery, I would absolutely love to help bring that vision to life. Contact me to schedule your free consultation and start dreaming up your custom wedding stationery & signage.
The Ultimate Guide to Wedding Invites: When to Send Them
One of the questions I hear most from couples is surprisingly simple: “…our wedding invites… when do we send them?” As a stationery designer…
One of the questions I hear most from couples is surprisingly simple: “…our wedding invites… when do we send them?” As a stationery designer, this is something I walk clients through all the time. Timing plays a bigger role than you might expect — not just for logistics, but for how you feel about your big day from the very beginning.
Why Timing Really Matters
Wedding invitations are often the first tangible piece of your wedding that guests get to hold. They offer a preview of what’s to come and help guests start planning travel, time off, and accommodations. Sending them too early can cause details to be forgotten, while sending them too late can create unnecessary stress. A thoughtful timeline strikes that sweet spot between excitement and practicality.
When I Recommend to Send Out Your Wedding Invites
In most cases, I suggest mailing your wedding invitations 10–12 weeks prior to your wedding day. This gives guests enough time to RSVP, plan ahead, and feel considered — without the invitation getting lost months in advance.
If the majority of your guests are local, 10 weeks is usually just right. It keeps everything feeling fresh while still allowing plenty of notice. If you’re hosting a destination wedding or have many guests traveling from out of state, 12–14 weeks gives everyone a little extra breathing room to book flights and accommodations comfortably.
When to Start the Invitation Process
Before invitations can be mailed, there’s a lot that happens behind the scenes — design, artwork, proofing, printing, and assembly. That’s why I recommend reserving your spot with a stationery designer about 6–8 months in advance of your wedding date so we can begin working on your invites together 18–20 weeks before your wedding. This allows time for custom watercolor artwork, thoughtful revisions, elevated print methods like letterpress or foil, and all the beautiful little finishing details such as ribbons or wax seals.
If you’re also planning on custom save the dates, those are typically mailed 6–8 months before the wedding, or up to a full year for destination weddings. In this case, please reserve your spot with Fior Design Studio up to 1.5 years prior to your wedding!
If you’re in a pinch and need your invitations ASAP but really love Fior Design Studio’s watercolor aesthetic, consider browsing my semi-custom options for a faster turnaround time. These should be ordered 4–5 months in advance of your wedding date.
If Your Timeline Feels Tight
Life happens, and sometimes planning doesn’t follow the “ideal” schedule. If you’re feeling behind, a stationery designer can help you adjust while still keeping things elevated and intentional. Whether that means simplifying designs, using digital RSVPs, or expediting printing, there are always thoughtful solutions we can work through together.
RSVP Timing (and Why It Helps Everything Else)
Your RSVP deadline is usually set 4 weeks before the wedding. This gives you and your planning team time to finalize seating charts, place cards, menus, and catering counts without feeling rushed. A clear RSVP timeline makes the final stretch of planning much smoother.
Full-Service Support (So You Don’t Have to Do It All)
One thing couples often don’t anticipate is how much time goes into the logistics — addressing envelopes, assembling suites, buying stamps, and making post office runs. If that sounds like one more thing you’d rather not manage, I offer a full-service stationery option that takes care of all of it for you. From design to printing and even mailing for you, everything is handled with care so you can focus on enjoying your engagement.
Final Thoughts
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but knowing generally when to send your wedding invites (hopefully) helps relieve a bit of the wedding stress! With the right guidance and a little breathing room, your invitations will arrive at just the right moment — setting the tone for that gorgeously unique wedding of yours.
If you’d like help mapping out your stationery timeline or designing pieces that feel thoughtful and cohesive from start to finish, I’d love to connect. You’re always welcome to fill out my contact form or email me to schedule a free consultation, and we can talk through your vision, your timing, and how I can support you along the way.